its my belief but we are on equal ground

recently, a friend of mine attended a seminar and met a heavily pregnant friend. apparently, that friend didn't go through the traditional way of having a child after marriage. fortunately, her partner was mature and bore all responsibilities.

this friend of mine has always been conservative but inquisitive about sex. while talking to her friend, she sent me a series of long sms-es criticising her pregnant friend and laminating on how a woman's body changes during pregnancy.

why do we succumb to temptations? since we are on the topic of sex. let me give you a scenario.

a couple is at the peak and wish to take it further but the risks involved put them off. in the middle of their fantasy, both feel that getting protection is their form of insurance, oblivious of the lingering risk. so they got it on but things happen a few months later.

the morale of the story - the availability of resources can put our resistance to temptations off.

i am not suggesting that we should use this excuse and start having romps every night but this entry is to remind ourselves not to be too pragmatic with our beliefs. they are our friends after all.